My man is quite a lady’s man. The problem is he is very good looking and I am quite plain. He flirts with every woman in the party whenever we go out. I have told him to stop but he says it’s harmless. Is it really?

There is no one in the world who has a right to make you feel small. It doesn’t matter if he is Brad Pitt, he is not allowed to do something that you have requested him not to do. Are you afraid that if you give him an ultimatum, he will leave you? What if he says he’ll stop but continues behind your back, would you prefer an “ignorance is bliss” scenario? Is being with a man who makes you suspicious better than being alone (for some time)? Are you more conscious of your looks than his being popular? You need to consider these questions. You need to know you’re goddamn gorgeous and he should think so too. However, if you still feel you need to get more clarity, try flirting with men at parties that you both go to. After a few shindigs if he’s not jealous and doesn’t care if you’re dancing closely with another man, you definitely need to dump him! Because you need a man who will not only dance closely, but want to only dance with you.