I was cleaning my boyfriend’s cupboard and found a stack of porn he keeps. When I confronted him he said it was something he had for a long time. Why does he still have it if he has me in his life? Isn’t this just a dirty habit?

Oh! Which one did he have? Ask him if he’s seen the Naughty Miss America series… They’re really good! Ok, on another note, I suggest you get over this horrified feeling. He’s not cheating on you. He’s just enjoying himself. It’s not an evil. And yes even if he has you, he will still need the porn. Like you will still need to go to the parlour even if you’re in a relationship. Or the fact that you might still ogle at Hrithik Roshan every once in a while. Both of you are individuals who will do things for yourself. That doesn’t take away from the love you have for each other. Or the passion he might feel for you. Porn is huge business worldwide and has its own Cannes Film Festival! You can also try and watch the porn with him or even separately. You might get some ideas! So get over it and get on with it. Good luck!